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Post by AnonymousAnnaXOXO on Jan 20, 2017 16:33:34 GMT
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Post by AnonymousAnnaXOXO on Jan 20, 2017 18:43:10 GMT
Whether religious or not, this apology is beautiful and made me tear up. People should check it out and share it with their partner, so their partner can see what a genuine apology is, and maybe inspire their own apology.
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Post by whataddiction on Feb 5, 2017 19:12:11 GMT
Whether religious or not, this apology is beautiful and made me tear up. People should check it out and share it with their partner, so their partner can see what a genuine apology is, and maybe inspire their own apology.
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Post by whataddiction on Feb 5, 2017 19:14:16 GMT
Whether religious or not, this apology is beautiful and made me tear up. People should check it out and share it with their partner, so their partner can see what a genuine apology is, and maybe inspire their own apology. Tried to comment on this post, but didn't realize how to at first. Sorry. Just wanted to say I'm not religious at all, but the apology and the wording of this apology was beautiful. I wish that my partner could be 1 percent as good at apologizing as this man.
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Post by AnonymousAnnaXOXO on Feb 5, 2017 22:04:07 GMT
Hey whataddiction, yeah this apology was amazing. I also hope that my partner one day will be able to give me an apology like this and I hope your partner does too
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Post by AnonymousAnnaXOXO on Feb 24, 2017 16:34:58 GMT
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Post by sopie123 on Feb 24, 2017 16:41:04 GMT
Hey whataddiction, yeah this apology was amazing. I also hope that my partner one day will be able to give me an apology like this and I hope your partner does too His apology made me cry, it's so beautiful and sincere. My partner cried and said sorry for hurting me, I know it'll take awhile for one like this but it's a start for my healing for him to say he knows he made me insecure and pained.
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Post by AnonymousAnnaXOXO on Feb 24, 2017 16:43:07 GMT
Yeah, my partner watched it and well, he said the apology was good. He told me he hopes he can give me an apology like that but told me he thinks he can't. I hate that he is all optimistic about other aspects of his life, but when it comes to making amends with me, he is all pessimistic and detached. He didn't cry or get emotional when watching that apology. I... I just I want to know that he truly gets my pain and what he has done.
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Post by stepbystep on Feb 25, 2017 2:29:35 GMT
My husband was moved by this as well, and has since written an apology to me which was lovely to receive.
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Post by AnonymousAnnaXOXO on Feb 25, 2017 3:12:18 GMT
Seriously? That is so sweet! I am glad that your husband wrote you an apology, that shows a lot of understanding on his part about the whole experience for both him and you.
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Post by stepbystep on Feb 25, 2017 3:49:23 GMT
Yes this was it
I am sorry, I am sorry for everything. Deeply and truly, I am sorry for watching porn, I am sorry for doing this behind your back for many years. I'm sorry for lying and deceiving you for all these years. I am sorry I didn't take any opportunity to face up to you and admit to my problem. Im sorry you had to catch me, and then process your shock. I'm sorry when you caught me and I laughed, I'm sorry for every justification and minimisation I have made up and given to you so I didn't have to face the truth. I'm sorry I said things like it was the kids in bed' or 'sex is effort', I'm sorry this felt like I put the blame on you. I'm sorry I was watching porn while you were putting the kids to bed, that is the most shameful thing I have ever done. I'm sorry how this affected me being there for you, and for the children. I'm sorry how much I neglected my role as a husband and father. I'm sorry for not trusting you or believing in you when I should have done. I'm sorry I have changed my mind on the addiction so many times. I'm sorry I have broken your heart so many times. I'm sorry I have made you feel alone. I'm sorry I have promised so many things and not delivered on them. I'm sorry for not being there for you when you were struggling and for you feeling unsupported for so many years. I'm sorry for being emotionally unavailable for you and the children, I'm sorry for being pedantic and questioning of everything. I'm sorry for objectifying and degrading women. I'm sorry for accepting fantasy over reality. I'm sorry for making you feel you need to be equal to those fantasies, I'm sorry for putting unrealistic expectations on you. I'm sorry for using masturbation, it was easy and selfish. I'm sorry the loss of intimacy for all these years, the lack of love making. I'm sorry for making you feel ugly, unloved, rejected, unworthy, for feeling tricked into a marriage that was a deception. I'm sorry for breaking our vows in the most horrible way. I'm sorry all the repressed memories I have brought up in you, and for all the work you have had to put to accept them. I am sorry for all the work you have put in to save our marriage, I don't want that effort to be in vain. I am sorry that I am putting only a fraction of the effort in to save our marriage as I did to wreck it. I'm sorry I have put you through so much heartbreak and pain time and time again. It should be me that has all the pain, I want to take it all off your shoulders and put it on mine. I'm sorry for all the crying you have done for us and me, I don't deserve your tears. I don't deserve you. None of this is your fault. I'm sorry for breaking our family, I'm sorry for being so bad at fixing it. I'm sorry it has taken this long for you to get an apology out of me, I hope reading this will make you feel a little less heartbroken, just a little.
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Post by AnonymousAnnaXOXO on Feb 25, 2017 5:27:38 GMT
wow, I am tearing up from reading that letter. That felt very honest ans sincere reading that. I hope (wish) my partner can write something heartfelt for me like that one day.
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Post by AnonymousAnnaXOXO on Mar 2, 2017 14:09:51 GMT
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Post by AnonymousAnnaXOXO on Mar 8, 2017 15:45:55 GMT
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